what will make you cheat?

I couldn't and wouldn't cheat on my hubby. There's no way I would ever be able to look him, or myself, in the eye again. If I were to "play" with another man, (which we are seriously considering) Hubbs would have to know about it and be there.

(sorry, I know it doesn't really fit in but I just love this emoticon...)

homo sapiens developed a larger brain for the purpose of being able to trap their prey and survive.  along with that larger brain came the gift of reason.  we are the only species on earth which has that gift.  can't it transcend a desire for more sex?  if you love someone, you stick with them, period.  sorry but horniness just doesn't count.  maybe just my two cents but it's my truth. 

I believe there is absolutely no reason whatsoever to cheat. If there is temptation either talk to your partner and let them know your tempted or at the very least, use that reasoning ability we humans have and break it off with your partner first. Who knows, maybe if you act like an adult and approach your partner you might find out they want sex from other sources as well and open the marriage.