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rick the bear to practice age discrimination.... under age 30 ladies, listen up!
Thursday, November 20, 2008

as an older and mature veteran of erotic chat and cybersex adventures, i have come to the conclusion i will no longer solicit the attentions of women under age 30.  i have arrived at this juncture due to a recent spate of unsatisfying and time wasting chats with younger women who are clueless when it comes to basic courtesy and consideration.

i am a dom male who engages in erotic chat and online bdsm relationships.  as a dom i expect respect and i give respect....  yet, i have found that the younger the woman, the less frequently i encounter respect and genuine concern for our mutual needs and desires...   i realize that as an older man, that it is natural that any younger woman is going to have a different level of life experience and world view... yet, i am discouraged by the prevalence of selfishness and the "me first" attitudes i have encountered. 

just this evening i had two profoundly unsatisfying encounters with women under 30 who evinced a total lack of courtesy and any grounding in basic human discourse.   i wasted a great deal of time on these feckless young women, only to be treated with disrespect and discourtesy.  rejection i can take, rudeness though infuriates me, and a raging bear is not a pretty sight!  as i grow older, i also value my time more dearly... and as a cruder male might posit... so much pussy, soooo little time! 

i do not intend to squander my precious hours with useless forays into the minds of the self centered... rather, i seek fully realized women of intelligence and erotic curiosity to join me in an exploration of our mutual sexuality.

i don't like generalizations, nor do i intend to impugn the character and value of the entire female population under 30.  but, if you see yourself reflected in my words, take heed and do not contact me.  if however, you are under 30 and feel you desire the conversation and cyber presence of an experienced hedonist and lusty cyber partner, please get in touch.  but, be aware that though i might be initially wary due to your age, i am fully capable of responding to like minds of any age.  i would treasure a few encounters that would fly in the face of my current experience and cause me to reevaluate my view.

as i resume my journey of sexual discovery, i appeal to members of all ages in our community to show respect, honesty, and basic common courtesy in our search for each other...  it will pay off in shared intimacy and the closer human contacts that we each seek.

i remain

rick the bear

   



I have never been interested in anyone half my age but that's just me.  I do find many younger people really attractive and very intelligent but they don't share my past and I'm not going to roll my eyes and say, "it was a tv show that stopped playing before you were born."

Good for you on making a personal decision for yourself.  You've done quite a few of those lately.

How goes the challenge?  I saw where you said you put on some weight when you started eating solid food.  It's ALL about portion size.  I have problems with that too.

My son is having it done on the 18th of December.  I hope he does as well as  you have.

Thursday, November 20, 2008 at 2:24am (MST)

maureen, i can always count on you to have a cogent and individual take.  i have very few r/l contacts with younger people.    i understand the lack of commonalities to be shared from people of greatly diverse ages. 

however, since i am an exclusively online presence,  age, appearance and the usual real world concerns are irrelevant.  i have found a few younger people with maturity beyond their years and experience... old souls i guess, who possess a vibrancy that can be alluring...   and some younger women find the strength and maturity of an older male figure attractive...  it seems once women pass 30, they often grow tired of the inexperience of youth, are now more immune to hard bodies, and seek the more mature  male.   this seems especially true for woman who are into the dominant/submissive mold.... and as a dom male, i benefit!

i am awaiting my fill with impatience.  my hunger has returned and i am actually looking for the restriction the fill will provide.  i can actually eat anything currently and after being on fluids for a month... it has been difficult to keep the portions reasonable... things taste so wonderful after the bland liquid diet... i guess its like the first sex after a period of celibacy... you knew it was good while you were abstaining.. but omigod once the fasting is over and you get your first taste, lookout!

i wish you and your son the best of everything (and oh, wow the site is wonderful- kudos to you, jayce and the staff!).  i am sure he will do wonderfully and that all of us will return to the bloom of great health!

Thursday, November 20, 2008 at 2:42am (MST)

What a gain for those of us pushing fifty and loss for those young 'uns!  Bless them father for they know not what they are losing.

Tuesday, December 2, 2008 at 12:49pm (MST)

I know.. I know... why am I a 'young' one commenting.  I feel that you should not generalize with the female gender in this realm.  In my opinion I find both men and women, who are under 30 lack the patience, and the dedication that is needed to not only fulfill their own lives, but their desires as well.

I have also found that the more they speak, the more they are all about themselves.  *shrugs*  they may not like the idea that I say this, but am I really here to befriend the entire site?  nope...

Its always a pleasure, and an honor, to find the 'classical' age groups, so intellegent, and willing and ready to share their thoughts and knowlege.  I'm always amazed at how many women who go for the younger man... boggles my mind.  If they only knew... the experience, the knowlege, the open mindedness that the 40+ age group posseses...

Keep in mind.. its not everyone over 40... however.. the vast majority of them... could learn a thing or two from you 'classics'

Their loss.... our gain....

Saturday, December 6, 2008 at 8:23am (MST)


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